As singles we often find ourselves obsessed with the idea of marriage. I was the same way, until I had conversations with God that changed my life. I would like to share with you what those conversations were and how they changed me. Over the next few weeks I will be sharing life changing information that I’m sure will help us as singles understand what is required of us and what we should know before we say “I Do”. 

To begin with, I will open with the idea that as singles the greatest and most important information we should know is who we are. I know that sounds funny because we should know this, but most of the time we don’t. I found out one day that I didn’t know who I was, and because I didn’t know who I was, I wasn’t able to choose the right kind of mate. 

It seems like the most ridiculous idea, but I want you to think about this. Ask yourself, who am I really? Then ask yourself, what kind of mate do I want and what kind of mates have I chosen in the past? Then do the comparison, does your idea of the ideal mate or the ideal mate that God would want you to have match with your past choices? Hum!!! That’s eye opening isn’t it?

There are clear discrepancies between who we really want and who we ended up with. Why is that? Well according to conversations I’ve had with God, I found out that often times this happens because we are desperate. Don’t kill the messenger! I want to help you get free from the contradictions in your dating life. You want a certain kind of mate, but you choose the complete opposite. I did the same thing for years. And for years I had to suffer the consequences of not having a proper understanding of who I was, and who was best for me. Hold on to your seats, you are in for a great ride.